What people believe: Getting pushed by an instructor or friend is necessary for beginners who can't generate enough paddle power to catch waves on their own.
Why this hurts your progression: Being pushed prevents you from learning proper wave timing and paddle technique. You become dependent on assistance instead of developing the skills needed for independent surfing.
The reality: If you're physically capable of paddling and have a properly sized board, you can catch waves independently from day one (see Dave in video). The push is a convenience, not a necessity.
What to focus on instead: Learn proper paddle technique and wave timing. Start in smaller, gentler waves where you can practice these skills without assistance.
Myth #6: You should initiate turns by swinging your arms and upper body
What people believe: Big arm movements and upper body rotation create powerful turns, just like in skiing or snowboarding. Swing your arms to generate momentum and throw your body into the turn.
Why this hurts your progression: Wild arm swinging creates uncontrolled movements that throw you off balance. If you're just swinging without direction, your board won't go anywhere productive. You need directed motion, not counter-rotation that fights itself.
The reality: While your lower body does follow your upper body (especially your eyes), effective turns require purposeful, directed movement. Your eyes lead by looking where you want to go, but your arms provide balance and fine-tuning, not the primary turning force.
What to focus on instead: Practice looking where you want to turn while keeping your arms centered and controlled. Let your eyes guide the movement, use your back foot to initiate the turn, and keep your upper body balanced rather than wildly swinging.
Myth #7: surfing is easy
What people believe: Social media makes surfing look effortless and natural. Instagram posts and YouTube videos show people gliding gracefully across waves, making it seem like anyone can pick it up quickly. The aspirational content suggests that if you're not "getting it" right away, something's wrong with you.
Why this hurts your progression: When you struggle with what looks so easy online, you start thinking you're a weirdo who "doesn't get it." This creates frustration and self-doubt that interferes with learning. You begin questioning your ability instead of recognizing that you're attempting something genuinely difficult.
The reality: Surfing can be easy—in perfect conditions, on the right equipment, with ideal waves. But most of the time, it's actually harder than all that graceful aspirational content makes you think. It's difficult, demanding, intellectual, and physical. You have to put so many variables together at once: reading waves, timing, positioning, board control, ocean knowledge, and physical technique. Some sessions are easier than others, but from fitting it into your busy life to affording decent equipment to actually getting the waves you want—it's not easy!
What to focus on instead: Embrace the difficulty as part of what makes surfing rewarding. Stop comparing your learning process to highlight reels. Recognize that every expert surfer struggled through the same challenging fundamentals you're working on now. The complexity is what makes mastery so satisfying.
Myth #8: Beginners don’t deserve a “real board”
What people believe: You should start with cheap foam boards from big box stores and "earn" better equipment as you improve.
Why this hurts your progression: Poor quality boards make learning unnecessarily difficult. Bad equipment creates bad experiences and slows skill development.
The reality: Quality equipment that fits your current skill level accelerates learning significantly. You deserve gear that helps rather than hinders your progression.
What to focus on instead: Invest in a properly designed beginner board from a reputable shaper or brand, even if it costs more initially. Good equipment pays for itself in faster progression. Check out my Complete Guide to Your First Board.
Myth #9: Beginner equals kook